Women is always like that. We are shady, fickle-minded and fundamentally superficial creatures. Putting myself in a guy's point of view. Our thoughts are hard to decipher by anyone else, and you can never be certain of the answers that we give. We mean yes when we say no. I'm sometimes confused too, with my own thoughts. Things just get more complicated when feelings and emotions are involved. I don't want to be overly optimistic about this, but I think I am perhaps, better off alone. But again, I don't think I can deal with the pain for parting with you. Like it or not, everyone here will have an issue with commitments, depending on the severity of it.